Sunday, October 24, 2004

so, this is what single people do

i recently separated from my husband of 11 years. we talked about it on friday and we both decided that this would be 'final'. we have separated before (2 times) and always about the same thing-- not going into details. he is a good human being, and no, he did not cheat on me or treat me bad. people don't change, they evolve.
we got married pretty young, a month after my 20th birthday. i got pregnant almost right away. we were forced into adulthood and we were not prepared.
lately, i have been thinking about dating. i have no idea how to go about it. do girls ask guys out? does that seem forward? also, i have two boys... i can't just bring all kinds of guys around. i know i don't want to jump into another relationship.. but i don't want to be alone either. this is a very confusing time for me. should i only date men with children?
i don't know, all i know is that i don't want to get my heart broken.

2 comments:

floatingwild said...

that is exactly who i do not want to be-- that annoying clingy chick wth kids........ewwww.
i do wish i had the body of my teenage years though... oh, if only i could find a worm-hole for bodies...:)

darth said...

some people evolve, others mutate.

i don't think dating only guys with children is a prerequisite-dating guys who like kids is :)

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